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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m confused. Why can’t you go on this trip without him? [/quote]

OP here.  I could go without him.  The trip would be about $12k and 10 days of vacation time.  I would rather spend the money and vacations days together.[/quote]

You should have discussed all of this before marriage.  Talked about it, not assumed.  Sounds like you aren't on the same page at all.

Go on your own.  If he goes and complains the entire time it will ruin the trip/might make your family feel differently about him.

Some people don't like to travel.  My FIL hates it.  My MIL was angry because she assumed after they retired they would travel more.  He pushed off retirement then he told her he hated travel.  She missed amazing trips (Egypt, Asia, Australia) waiting for him.  My DH and I lived overseas for years invited them to visit/on our international trips and she never came.  She finally started doing some on her own, but lately she had some health issues and really regrets not doing more. BUT she did a bucket list trip years ago with my DH and SIL.  My husband planned it (before we were seriously together) and they still talk about it to this day.  My FIL didn't go, but doesn't seem to regret it either.  So I say go on that trip, but have no idea what life holds.  My MIL could not do that trip now due to some random health stuff (she was healthy and active her entire life), so do it before you can't.

What is your anniversary if you just got married?[/quote]

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