Reply to Parents, do you allow your college age boy live in the same bedroom with his girlfriend in your house?

Forum Index » Adult Children

Reply to "Parents, do you allow your college age boy live in the same bedroom with his girlfriend in your house? "

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Can you tell him to stop bringing his girlfriend home and to events. My kids aren't that old yet but I'm already annoyed thinking about the possibility. [/quote]

Of course a parent can do that, and it's excellent strategy to build a relationship with your adult kid where they want limited contact with you[/quote]

How adult are they at 21? Are you done paying for college and their living expenses?[/quote]

So rules are different if they've a full ride?[/quote]

I get, I guess, the my house my rules sentiment, but I will never understand the need to control your children's behavior until they are completely financially independent. Baffling [/quote]

To be fair, if they aren't financially independent the parents have to bear the consequences of their actions. [/quote]

That's not much of an argument. It's not even a good "to be fair." It seems then the argument is that they don't learn to make good choices or independent decisions until they're completely financially independent? That seems like a really bad idea.

And it's a straw man because we know that's not the reason parents are trying to  control behavior of adults. (And please do not come at me with they are not adults unless they're fully paying for absolutely everything. That is a specious argument)[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics