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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This “divorced but at least I got to have kids” just feels so cruel to the kids. As if divorce is a “shrug, no big deal” for the kids. If you want kids, but haven’t met someone you want to be with long-term, then have a child on your own. Settling, divorcing and coparenting is so much worse for the kids involved. And yes, I chose not to settle and had a child on my own. Raising a happy, secure kid who doesn’t have to shuffle houses or deal with parents who hate each other. [/quote] It’s better for kids to have two parents, even divorced (especially if they’re amicable), than to be fatherless. [/quote] Amicable happens very rarely if the marriage was a product of either party “settling”. [/quote]
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