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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, you said you found out about all this from friends. Your son never said it bothered him to you, and you never talked to your EX about it, it sounds. It sounds to me like you heard from your friends a woman came with your ex, then you thought back and noticed some misbehavior from your 7 year old, and put 2 and 2 together and decided to go after your EX with lawyers. You've got a tough road ahead of you if that's the way you're going to play it. Maybe you should have called your EX and gotten his side of the story, and tried to work something out with him. Instead, you've taken gossip and gone to the lawyers and started tossing around the idea of court orders and contempt. Come on. You KNOW there was a better way to handle this, you sound like you were just chomping at the bait to nail your ex's ass to the wall. [/quote]

I asked my ex, he didn't respond. I was hoping for a good explanation that would ease my concerns.
Children process what happens in different ways. Mine can be silent for months before telling me something. I didn't want to interrogate him, don't want to hurt him with stupid questions. He was definitely very upset for a few days, but seemed to get better by the end of the week. Actual harm? Well, we are not talking about physical harm like bruises etc., but emotional can be bad and have long-term effects if not addressed. That's why I am looking into this.
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