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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was 12 when older men started hitting on me and I find it disgusting and I guess I never shed the idea of what type of man you must be to be hitting on such a young person. And yes, I lump them.

As I think what “cake eater” men are and then bam they get cancer and the younger woman wants nothing to do with them and then they turn back towards their family for help and you’re like go **** yourself. You roll the dice and you seven’d out.

My mother-in-law lives in an over 55 community and every man who has a second wife who is younger … they gets abandoned once he is no longer capable. He leaves his wife at 55 for a 35 year old and at 70 or earlier if he gets sick he gets abandoned. You have to think he left his wife when she got “ passed her usefulness” and then he married someone who “ left him when he passed his usefulness “. Sure it’s karma, but who suffers, the children…. Again. And then the kids get stuck with this old man who abandon them and can’t care for them.

So am I mad for the first wife no I’m mad for the kids.[/quote]

If the man is wealthy enough to provide for the younger wife in the will/life insurance they will stick around. If not - she’ll offload him on kids from prior marriage. 
I’ve observed this tendency and lots of abandoned older (70+) men in DC. Usually these are educated but not particular wealthy guys: former nonprofits leads, federal retirees.  If you go to any free embassy concert, you’ll see them. They were all in long term relationships in the past, but didn’t marry their partners so there was no economic motivation for her to stick around. Women at 60+ age group would rather enjoy their freedoms and travel on a small budget than taking care of a man for free. They’ll stick around only as long as he's able to travel together. 
A guy I knew recently died in his early 70s: he never married or moved in with his partner . There was nobody to help at home when he had a strike. Kids buried him, the ex partner wasn’t even at funeral. She’s traveling the world and couldn’t care less [/quote]

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