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Reply to "if you're a "no divorce expect with abuse / cheating" person - what would you do in this situation"
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[quote=Anonymous]Personally, I think divorce is better the younger the kids are so I would do it now. You will never make it 15 more years like this. And “lashing out” is abusive. Frankly, this isn’t like someone who is bedridden with MS if he manages to get up to work (and is on 80% travel!) and participate in hobbies. This is selective. In another analogy, I have pretty crippling arthritis. It is bad enough that doctors have suggested I try to seek permanent disability. Guess what? I manage to work every day at a very high paying job. I avoid heavier tasks like cleaning the garage or laundry. I cannot get down on the floor and get up easily to play with a kid. But I still manage to cook meals, deal with dishes, put up Xmas decorations, etc. Do I leave some of the heavy lifting to my husband or someone I’ve outsourced to? Yes. But I fully participate in our life. Are there days when I say “I’m in too much pain, let’s order pizza?” Yes. [/quote]
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