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Reply to "if you're a "no divorce expect with abuse / cheating" person - what would you do in this situation"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] [/quote] I don't understand the PP who accepts that this is how her husband is and makes time for them to have fun together. Personally, I would have too much resentment and could not stand to be around someone like that, but everyone is different. [/quote] I am the PP who accepts and has fun, but I think I have 2 very different things going for me: 1. Sleep, because my kids are older, and 2. My husband is a genuinely likable and nice guy. OP is dealing with BPD on top of young children, and BPD is absolutely awful to be around (my sister has it, really nasty tragic stuff). A third thing may be that I’m surrounded by very similar couples (Foreign Service) where we literally shape our lives around spouse’s jobs, so the expectations for a partner are already low. But would we last in the US in a normal context? Probably not, tbh. So much is just circumstances.[/quote]
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