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[quote=Anonymous]Make sure when you do it you are smart about it , IE if he had any of your possessions at his place, that you care about, or he could destroy to spite you, you get them out of his custody. Don't be surprised if he then tries to attack your life and wellbeing - calling employers, friends, badmouthing you etc. Make sure you have people in your life nearby to help support. When he is being mean , hateful, etc WRITE DOWN how you feel in that moment, you will need to go back to it when you feel like you may get sucked back in, the mind has a good way of underestimating bad times and overestimating good times. It especially helps in these moments to reaffirm "qualifiers" you may have had in your head, like " This action makes it apparent to me that he will choose gambling over his own well being and my happiness, and no amount of concessions on my end is going to fix this" [/quote]
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