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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Easy. They want to bang and don’t want to commit. Since they are helping you, then they might expect retribution.

On the other hand, it might be they feel they are being seduced for long term.[/quote]

Not getting it: so if I show them kindness and independence by not using their time and resources they think I wouldn’t be banging them? [/quote]

I think pp used the word “retribution” when she meant “reciprocation.” As in, they expect you to put out since they did something for you. [/quote]

OP here: I just enjoy being nice to men, just as much as I enjoy treating me. I told him I would want us to have sex (after std testing), and he was fairly certain I would follow through without him loaning me his car or an apartment to stay, or whatever. The point is he lost interest once he realized it was promised ....or maybe his std panel didn't clear. I'm still puzzled but it did happen before when they flake once I warm down to them.[/quote]

Have you considered condoms instead of requiring an “std panel”? [/quote]

Are you saying men should flake offended anytime women inquire about  their herpes status ? I suspected he might felt offended but in that case we are not a match. If I have no issues showing my panel then so should my partner if they are clean. If they want to rub their P on my privates but too lazy to take panel - hard pass [/quote]

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