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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So DH cheated and you want to take it out on his parents? I think you’re just trying to exert control here. Are you hoping to get back together with him? I don’t see the big deal with two nights with the ILs at a rented place. You’re not hosting them. They’re capable adults that want to spend the holidays with their family. If you must, you rent a place just for yourself and let DH and the ILs stay there, and you can limit your time with them. [/quote]

She is not taking it out on his parents. But why is it on her to facilitate them by making things awkward for herself? You think he would do the same if the roles were reversed? The ILs are not the biggest concern here, it is the KIDS. And their needs should come first.

This situation sucks, OP. I would not want to pretend anything but my biggest worry would not be the ILs but to make things the best you can for the kids and if that means grinning and bearing it for a few days just do it. Not for ILs but for the kids.

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