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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Congratulations on possibly destroying children’s lives with a bitter divorce that might not have otherwise happened if you didn’t feel the need to insert yourself into other’s lives.

This is worse than cheating. You are directly possibly causing trauma for kids that may not have happened otherwise. Marriage is about much more than sex.

People should mind their own business.

-never cheated[/quote]

What kind of f/'ed up logic do you follow that blames the cheated on spouse for the family destruction?  That's some serious mental gymnastics.[/quote]

You sound like you can’t see things very clearly. The OP has only one choice: give the information to the AP’s spouse which (1) provided them with information they deserve and (2) makes it very likely that the marriage implodes, or don’t do that. The “blaming the cheated-on” is straightforward: giving the spouse the deserved info can result in breaking up the marriage, and both holding the info can preserve the marriage. I’m not saying to do one or the other, just that what the cheated-on spouse does has both an ethical and a harmful outcome. [/quote]

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