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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A lot of answer putting the onus of the situation on the guy. Low T, depression, overweight.

Like someone mentioned before, it could be resentment or how he’s feeling in the relationship. People underestimate how a lack of respect, feelings of being dominated or controlled by an A type personality spouse, and a continual over prioritization of children’s schedules could make a man not feel like a man anymore, and thus no longer want to be intimate with *you*. Couple that with managing young kids, aging parents, personal health, work/income pressure, household and other things, and sex with your demanding spouse doesn’t seem all that appealing anymore. Also, blaming him for the dead bedroom situation is not a great sexual motivator. [/quote]

So many responses above are “he must be low T, closeted or have a corn addiction”.  “I couldn’t possibly have any responsibility”[/quote]

To be fair to OP, I don’t believe they are shirking responsibility. But she hasn’t shared what work she has done to understand how she may be contributing to the situation. It’s not just about weight and looking hot. Do you know how many overweight, average looking escorts make $$ and are in high demand. If a man isn’t having sex with you and doesn’t have health issues, then there may be more to it on your end as well as his. Focus on what you can control.[/quote]

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