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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No.

If the marriage were working he wouldn’t be in love with me. He is only still there for the kids.[/quote]

Question. Do you feel guilt about the kids? [/quote]

What they don’t know won’t hurt them.[/quote]

But what about those impacted by upset mothers, parents fighting about this matter, and possibly having a family broken up. Nothing? So cold![/quote]

The marriage is basically over anyway. That is more the cheated on spouse’s fault than the AP’s. Do you think there would be no “fighting” without the AP? There is fighting in my man’s home constantly even without the DW knowing about us. His kids are teens though, so he won’t have to put up with her much longer.[/quote]

I read an article that said researchers found that most men are generally happy in their relationships even those who cheat. Of course couples fight, but in a million years I would never choose to play a role, even if the main onus fell on the guy, in a decision that might hurt others, especially kids. Both the DH and AP seem wrong to me. I hope that I’m raising my kids to be humans who think beyond “not my family; not my responsibility” when they’re adults and I would be incredibly disappointed in them if that’s the type of people they become. [/quote]

But how does a normal person get to be like this? How do they start out wanting a secret relationship rather than an authentic one?

And for all these AP's that say the wife did something just as many people think it's actually the AP who is doing more because they are luring this depressed person like prey. In reality we all have our own agency but these AP's are pretending they don't have agency to others because they enjoy these secret lives.[/quote]

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