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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No.

If the marriage were working he wouldn’t be in love with me. He is only still there for the kids.[/quote]

Question. Do you feel guilt about the kids? [/quote]

Why would I feel guilt about the kids? My relationship has nothing to do with them. I have no interest in him leaving his family. I have no interest in “more” than we have now— I’m very busy with my career and friends and travel and do not want a marriage or even to have to deal with a man full time. [b]I’m not hurting his kids[/b].[/quote]
uh.. yes you are. You are complicit in hurting his kids.

It's one thing if you didn't know he had kids, but you clearly do, and you are hurting the kids by knowingly helping destroy their family unit.

Awful.[/quote]

Why doesn't the wife matter? I mean sure the guy doesn't like her anymore but he's pretending to and she's a real human. I'm sorry but it's just not true that some wife causes him to cheat. She may do something that makes him unhappy but that doesn't then equal cheating. Likely she doesn't even know because cheaters can't deal with conflict.  I mean she's a human and you are treating her or him like she's not a real person.
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