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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would have a conversation with him and ask if he truly wants a divorce. If so, I would say, okay, let's start a separation, see a mediator, agree to 50/50 of assets and custody and be done with it. Litigating with attorneys makes divorce so much worse and gives them money you as a couple would be keeping.

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Divorced an attorney (we had a mediator draft the agreement; I gave in on some things and took less than 50-50 and hired an attorney to file it. This is how the divorce is "amicable"). Cheap divorce and better in the long run.[/quote]

You got screwed

Hire your own attorney op

Get copies of all your finances [/quote]

I actually didn’t get screwed because in a long-term it’s a better situation and now my kids are going to private school and have all college paid for if we had a normal divorce. It would’ve been truly awful and we would’ve been scrounging for pennies for anything there would’ve been no private school option and I would still be worried about paying for college, I took about $75,000 less and yes it kind of sucks but I think in the end it’s been a better situation and by the way, I did have an attorney and that person who screwed me because she messed up my forms for pension benefits, and my ex has been able to help me get out of it because he’s an attorney if we had divorce the normal way I would not have any pension benefits because of how my attorney screwed up filing paperwork with the Government [/quote]

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