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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]^ It sucks, but you are better off without him if this is how he’s treating your innocent son.

He’s knocked you back right now; you are reeling. Do not get down on yourself for being hurt and feeling betrayed and sad.

Your son is going to really go through it, due to dad’s ridiculous and unnecessary actions.

Whatever kindness/sanity/positivity you can muster for yourself, and you should be kind to yourself, share it with your son. You are both in the same boat right now, the S.S. Blindsided. Remember that no one can build their happiness on the pain of others.

Good wishes and hugs to you and your son, op. It’s really unfortunate for both of you. People can remarry or find new partners; kids can’t find new moms or dads.[/quote]  This is such a kind response. Thank you so much. I'm devasted on behalf of our kid. I at least saw warning signs and red flags and really thought I was going crazy but I can't say I was completely blindsided - I feel like I was pushed to a point where he forced me to confront him. My therapist said "you might be crzy and you might not be but it's probably best at this point to come out and ask, and be prepared to find out you actually weren't being paranoid." But... I highly doubt these warning signs/flags have been nearly as visible to our kid. One of my best friends who knows dh so well said *she* feels gut punched because our relationship appeared pretty solid and mutually respectful.  I really have to get myself together mentally to support our child.[/quote]

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