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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sorry the coach lied. Many coaches are really terrible at this age - any coach who thinks winning is important at age 11 (select team or not) has a screw loose and is getting some sort of weird validation from being a winning coach instead of developing athletes and setting a good example for kids. My only advice is to find a more casual, local-only travel team that’s not trying to be “competitive” (I take it that’s what you were trying to do, but don’t give up because of one crappy coach!). We have always sought out teams like this for our son, and I think it has only helped his development as a player, teammate, and quite frankly as a person[b]. He is in high school now and nobody knows or cares who was on the “elite” team three or four years ago.[/b] [/quote] Very true. Any parent of a high school baseball player could tell some stories and give examples….performance at the younger ages has little correlation to performance later on at the high school level +. Many of the youth “stars” never even make the HS baseball team, and many youth “weak players” do. I’ve seen this over and over again. Lots of surprises. [/quote] It's called puberty. You don't know how a kid will develop until they actually do.[/quote] Although...it is exceedingly rare that a professional athlete didn't dominate at every age. You will hear of them form time-to-time...a player like Jackson Merrill who barely made the JV team as a HS freshmen, but then went on to be a first MLB pick after his senior year in HS. 95% are players like Messi (trained at FC Barcelona starting at 5), or Freddie Freeman or Bryce Harper or again nearly all pro athletes that were dominant players at 5, 10, 15, etc.[/quote] That may be true about the top 0.001% of athletes, but that's not true about who makes it to high school sports. Plenty of little league all stars don't develop physically. Plenty of awkward kids become well coordinated athletes in high school. I look at our high school varsity team and half the kids were middle of the draft picks in little league.[/quote]
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