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[quote=Anonymous]I am a criminal defense attorney and I post every so often when these sorts of threads pop up.  To all the people rolling their eyes at the fear of abuse at the hands of an older sibling or other relative in the sleepover host's home, it happens quite a bit.  I have had some pretty ugly cases of abuse come out of sleepovers.  Sometimes the perpetrator is the older brother.  Sometimes it is the uncle.  Sometimes it is the older brother's friend.  You get the picture.  It happens more than I am comfortable with.  Then there are the cases where the kids are up too late and get too crazy.  In one extreme case, a little boy was bullied by his soccer team and got scared of them in the middle of the night.  He took steps to defend himself (like the equivalent of making fists and getting into a fighting stance), started yelling, woke up the parents (who did not know him particularly well), and the parents called the police.  That little boy wound up in the juvenile detention home for several days.  I am not often moved by my clients' families fear of a loved one being in jail or a detention home.  With this little boy I was in a near frothing panic to get him out.  In another, a group of boys snuck out of the sleepover house and went up to their school  and set fire to things like grass, small piles of paper, etc.  They wound up charged with arson.  There was no property loss.  Many of them were held in the juvenile detention home over a major holiday weekend.  When school starts my sleepover business increases dramatically.[/quote]

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