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[quote=Anonymous]You got a lot of time with your kids. Concentrate on the time you have. Those are big kids. They are able to tell the judge what they want in no time if you two can't figure out what's best for them. Not convinced at all that the school is lower quality and that being near family is not a good thing. Neither was the judge. I got 50/50, but haven't seen the kid more than 10 days out of a year. What's on paper versus how it ends up, are two different things. I got so much crap from family, co-workers and even ex-bf for not having my child more often. The pressure is real. Kids don't want to see the fighting. They don't count the days they are with one parent or another. They want stability and me letting them go, was the stability. Ex was never going to let up while divorcing. I have great relationship with my kid. Ex chilled out and started to respect the child's wishes when he was 14. [/quote]
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