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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The private CC office would do their parents justice by steering kids in certain directions with top 20 schools so that the ED choice isn’t a waste. For example, if a kid wants to ED an Ivy, pointing out that there are 8 legacy kids applying early to Harvard would be a good thing to know! Not sure why this kind of advice isn’t given on the regular-even if you ask they don’t seem to want to answer!![/quote]

OP here.  I tried asking CC this and didn't get very far.  I asked if it made sense for my kid to ED to their #1 choice, given where others in the class were EDing.  CC didn't give me any answer and implied that I was nosing into other kids' business (not my intent at all).  Then I said "my reason for asking is just so we could pick another ED if the lane for choice #1 is crowded" and CC implied that I was making decisions on behalf of my child or forcing things on my child (which they HATE---they clearly never want parents talking on behalf of kids--which is difficult when the kid is 17 and barely came to the decision for one school--let alone is thinking through back-up ED choices).

I just feel way out in left field and confused.  [/quote]

I think this is a very reasonable question for college counseling. Had a kid go thru Holton and they will definitely let you know if the college your kid wants to ED to has many or more competitive or hooked admits that are also applying ED and discuss options.  To be clear, they will support students EDing where they want to and will not provide details on who else is applying, but if you ask, they be upfront if admittance is “highly unlikely” or  “unlikely” and suggest options. [/quote]

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