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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]And her cousin is claiming DD exposed herself to him in the bathroom.

This happened at Grandparents house over the weekend.  DD says she got out of the shower and her cousin was standing in the small room where the toilet is and peeking at her.  She covered herself with her towel and started shouting at him and he ran out.

He’s claiming she called him into the bathroom while she was nude.

Obviously DH & I believe our daughter.  There’s zero reason she would purposefully expose herself to her younger cousin.

However my SIL believes her son.  BIL seems to be staying out of it.

It’s becoming a major issue in our family and DD is incredibly upset that her aunt thinks she’d expose herself to her cousin.

We are taking a little time out from family and hope that SIL calls down.

DH is a little worried because she has a history of escalating things.

Should we be doing something?  I’m pretty upset as well.  [/quote]

Adults are making a big deal out of this and will cause psychological scars by continuing it.

You need to just say "So the hell what?"  We used to all go skinnydipping with siblings and cousins, no big deal at all.

At 9 years old, he's understandably curious, but he's a child. She shoulda just snapped him with a wet towel and run him off and laughed it off. [/quote]

And at 16 years old, she's figuring out her body and could be uncomfortable within her skin. She's a child too. She's allowed to shower in private without some creeper looking at her.[/quote]

She is allowed. But she forgot to lock the door and he accidentally walked in on her. Shit happens. People need to learn to roll with the punches and give everyone the benefit of the doubt.[/quote]

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