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[quote=Anonymous]a 9/16 year old having an awkward bathroom movement isn't the issue. It's the lying and the SIL who sounds like she escalates. Normal adults would split the difference and say 'well that shouldn't have happened. Next time, get an adult if the other bathroom is occupied and you need to use the other one with the toilet chamber if someone is showering.' and 'next time ENSURE that door is locked'. It's not that hard. If SIL escalates to a nutty point, no wonder BIL is staying out of it or if the 9 year old felt a need to lie OR she thinks YOU escalate so she is getting ahead of what she thinks you will do. For me: honestly, I wouldn't have the kids together unsupervised or supervised only by grandma. I would had daughter or you record your best recollection of events ASAP if you have not already and consider getting that notarized if SIL escalates to reporting you or some garbage like that.[/quote]
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