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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your mother and SIL are in the wrong, both for throwing a shower in the first place and for not asking you who you wanted to be invited. [b]If you don't feel like you can ask them to include some members of your husband's family then there is something bigger going on here and you have my sympathy. [/b] But if you don't, gently, nip in it the bud now not it will get bigger and bigger after the baby comes. [/quote] It HAS to be this. Is there some issue between you and your mom OP? Because you have 100% agreement (seriously, a DCUM first) that it is in no way rude to ask your mom to include your MIL in this shared joy and in fact, that you should have been consulted and MILs are always invited. If you have a great relationship with your in laws I suggest you try to preserve it. This can impact a lifetime of interactions over this child. SERIOUSLY, start off on the best foot possible. [/quote]
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