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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I've been stalked by my medical providers before (yes, more than once: 2 psychs and a physio). This is not the sexy fantasy you may want it to be.

The sort of 'professional' who would egregiously violate their code of ethics this way is not the kind of person you want to be involved with. And, if/when they become creepily obsessed with you, and you want them to stop, you'll face the deification of whitecoats when you try to make any sort of report about their behavior. People will accuse you of lying, golddigging, "trying to destroy a good person's reputation"... all the while believing the offender's story because "they're a doctor!" The thin white line works a lot like the thin blue line, and not in your favor.

The moment you recognize this is happening, you need to switch providers. Immediately. And if you feel safe, make a report to their licensing board (though, again, don't expect much from the other doctors who review those). No amount of physical attractiveness should outweigh the amorality of this behavior. The lack of ethics is a MASSIVE red flag.

Avoid!!![/quote]

Wait —you have been stalked by two psychiatrists? And another doctor as well? Somehow I think this is most like delusional on your part.[/quote]

I was stalked by my psychiatrist at 18 and another at 31 and a physio in my 40s. Both the psychs got reported, only the latter lost his license. The ordeal made me unwilling to waste my time reporting the physio, knowing I'd be disbelieved.

Y'all need to stop and think what it does to survivors when you doubt them. This is why people don't report.[/quote]
I'm sorry that happened and more than once! I'll never understand people who obsess over others but there are plenty who do just that without shame while the innocent victim ends up being traumatized and dismissed by others. It can be the worst part of the ordeal.
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Thank you. It was horrific, and has shaped my life to this day, despite many years of therapy (which, as you might imagine, was an ordeal in and of itself!)

Another disturbing point: once you're victimized and traumatized, you become easier prey for the sort of person who is looking for exactly those qualities to exploit. The damage ripples out in all kinds of ways. [/quote]

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