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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I know this is hard to believe, but for the first 16 years of our marriage, DH and I only had sex once a month. I thought he just had a low sex drive but then we were fighting so much, we didn't have sex for 4 months and started counseling. Surprise surprise, we had an emotionally distant relationship our entire marriage. We worked super hard to repair our relationship and now have sex once a week.

During the once a month years, I mostly helped myself liberally and fantasized about other men. Unbeknownst to me, I also flirted more than I meant to with other men: dads in the neighborhood, some guys at work, etc. I never cheated, but had all this pent up energy that had to go somewhere.

Hugs OP. I hope you sort this out soon. [/quote]

I like sex. Have had it liberally and am the farthest from a prude you would get. I just cannot understand how sex is such a priority for some of you. That’s not necessarily a criticism but I don’t get the fixation. Pent up energy? Fantasizing? Flirting?[/quote]

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