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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No one ever divorces because of an affair.

There were other dysfunctions in the relationship that led to the affair that are the real reasons for the divorce.[/quote]

I disagree. In my case, ex had the affair and later wanted to stay together, but I said no because of the affair. Dysfunction alone doesn’t cause a divorce. But dysfunction + infidelity? The infidelity ends up blowing up the marriage. Not because of lack of date nights or ex isn’t cleaning up after himself. [/quote]

ditto. Ex begged, begged, begged for me not to end the relationship after I found out about his affairs. I truly loved him, and what I found out was so shocking different from the person I thought he was. TBH, from the first moment I knew about his infidelity, the relationship was over to me.

Our split wasn't about other problems in the marriage - it was solely about his cheating. Evidently, there weren't problems in the marriage from his side either otherwise he wouldn't have begged to stay in it.  The problems were solely within himself. [/quote]

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