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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Men don't think about "the one that got away."  That's woman thinking.  [/quote]

Man here:  you don’t understand men, at all.  Men get their heart broken for the first time and are basically never the same after.  Every man I’ve ever discussed the matter with felt the loss of their first love very, very deeply, and it sticks with you like an old football injury or something.  IME women are quicker to move on once they meet a “better” man, and the ones who pine are ones who have ended up with someone not as appealing.  [/quote]

First love.  So pps are basically correct.  All the randos after not so much. [/quote]

I understand men very well, being one. And yes, men don't think about the one that got away, not in the say women mean it. You may have felt strongly about past relationships, especially your first serious one. But you aren't constantly comparing your current relationships with your previous ones in the same way women do [/quote]

I think women only compare in this way if they end up with someone who does not compare favorably to a past love.  They tend to be ok with upgrading.  Many men, I think, can only fall truly in love once, even if they end up marring someone who is objectively better, and even if they have loving feelings toward other women it’s not the same.  [/quote]

I think you and the PP are way off base. [/quote]

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