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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’ve had two “work husbands”. I’ve also had a work wife (I’m a wild girl 😜).

But. With my work husbands, we never communicated OUTSIDE of the office/official work stuff. Like ever. For one of them, I didn’t have any personal contact info, and the other, we were connections on LinkedIn. That’s it.

OP - your husband is having emotional affairs, and trying to cloak them as a work relationship. Do these women even know he is so secretive with you about them?[/quote]

Wait, so it was wrong to text my work wife a picture of the Pacific ocean when I was dropping my daughter at college? Seriously? Are you Mike Pence?[/quote]

Are you feeling guilty or something? I said what *I* did. Not what I think others should do.

But. [b]Why did you feel the need to text a picture to a co-worker? Why couldn’t it wait until you got back to work?[/b] Sit down and think about why you had to text this woman right at that moment, and whether it’s truly appropriate.[/quote]

Because she is my friend and I care about her and she's never seen the Pacific.  What an odd question.[/quote]

New poster, but it’s not an odd question. Think about what you’re saying. You see a beautiful piece of scenery. You know your work wife well enough to know that she hasn’t seen this before, so you’ve had that conversation before. In this moment, you look at this beautiful thing and are compelled to send it to her. Do whatever you want. But what everybody is pointing out to you is that there is more to this relationship than you’re acknowledging. The plausible deniability is what allows it to continue. But there’s a reason you’re defensive. And if you spend any time thinking about it from the perspective of your wife, you might get it. [/quote]

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