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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Does it annoy you or do you not care? If someone is in town for a business trip or a family obligation like a wedding -- even if they told me they’d have time to hang out but they never get in touch, I don’t usually care; I have traveled enough for work/family to know that time fills up and sometimes there are post-meeting dinner obligations etc. to where you can’t just tell someone you’re going to go meet a friend.

But this time a friend is in town from the Midwest from Thursday-Sunday for a bachelorette weekend (I don’t know the bachelorette).  She didn’t tell me, I saw it on FB that she had flown in and sent her a message saying “didn’t know you’d be in town; if you have time to hang out, let me know.”  No response, so I assumed she’s pretty booked and[b] that’s fine, except she’s posting on Facebook every hour o[/b]f the day that they’re wandering around this part of town, at x restaurant, at y bar -- i.e. nothing crucial.  Is it just Facebook etiquette? I feel like if I go to a city where I have a friend and I don’t want to hang out bc it’s a short trip/I just want to be lazy in the hotel etc, I don’t advertise my whereabouts because I don’t want my friend to feel like I blew them off in favor of doing nothing.
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You aren't really fine with it because you are judging her on how she spends her time.  Why do you think that you have to be included?  [/quote]

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