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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You’re not close, if you haven’t seen her or spoken to her in many years.

And you’re hounding her for an audience after her mother just died?! Shame on you. Her mother just died and you are giving her lectures on “keeping her word”? She is GRIEVING, you moron. [/quote]

This. And it also doesn’t sound like you had confirmed plans.[/quote]

So what? Having no confirmed plans means you can’t keep someone in the loop?[/quote]

She didn’t actually want to see him (because he’s a pushy creeper). So she was purposefully not keeping him in the loop. [/quote]

I had wondered if OP was the woman's ex. It reads like a pushy romantic interest and a woman trying to sidestep him.

But, repeatedly saying "it's been a month" about the mom's death makes me think it's just a troll stirring people up. Good thread if so, you got DCUM unanimity. [/quote]

I’m not her ex. She’s just an old friend I haven’t seen in a while. I keep saying it’s been a month because you all keep saying she “just died” - if her mom had just died I would’ve given her more space for sure. I’m not some jerk who was trying to usurp her time if her mom had just passed away. That’s why I wanted to make the clarification of when she passed.[/quote]

A month = just died.     She is busy with grief, family, and who knows what.    How many times are you going to keep texting someone you have not seen or talked to in years?     Please give some space.   She knows how to reach you.

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