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[quote=Anonymous]Well she responded….

She said,

“ We didn’t come up with concrete plans.

I communicated my uncertainty about Saturday very clearly, multiple times. Before you even took your trip I told you I wasn’t sure how long my family would be around, that I had plans both days, and wasn’t sure which time would be best.

Having things to do Saturday with my family, especially being with my mother’s sisters was very important given what’s going on with our family/grieving. Being with them took precedent, so my mind was not on regularly updating you, given that I made it clear I was unsure how Saturday was to play out and why I couldn’t give you a definitive time. However, despite wanting to be with my family, I was still hoping to fit you in but it didn’t work out. Yet you browbeat me for “not keeping my word” and  failing to communicate satisfactorily about hanging out with you, again when no time, no place had been established- only tentative plans.

I’m not interested in continuing to go back and forth. Like I said, wish you the best”[/quote]

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