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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I’d like to just accept him as he is and move on. But our sex life is dead. And that really matters to me. [/quote]
He sounds depressed, honestly.[/quote]

Wouldn't you be if the person who is supposed to love you unconditionally keeps putting you down? [/quote]

Sometimes people need to hear the truth and not be coddled.  Short term pain for sure but better in the long run, IMO.   [/quote]

Yep, what we all look for in a spouse.  Someone to kick us when we're down.[/quote]

I hear women on hear constantly complaining about men leading them on, being the "nice guy" and not having the backbone to speak up.  OP spoke up.  It's not kicking a man when he's down to tell the truth.  It's being honest and not letting him believe that everything is ok.  My ex wife did this exact thing.  I gained weight, she lost interest, didn't say a peep to me until she wanted a divorce.  Would have been much better for us if she said, "yo, fatso.  lose some weight, get healthy, be driven, or I'm leaving."  That would have jolted me out of my blissful ignorance for sure.  Exaggerating for affect, but some nicer variation of that would have worked and possibly saved my marriage.  So you say, "kicking him while he's down", I say, "being authenticate"  OP you got balls.  Bravo.  [/quote]

She'd find something else to hate you for if you lost weight. [/quote]

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