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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Uh yeah I don’t understand this. She says basically she’s almost always friendly because of perceived danger (which I get and also love daily). How does this translate to flirting?! Seems like OP’s world view is if a woman is smiling and making friendly conversation = flirting. Trust me, OP — that’s not the case. [/quote]

Op here. I told her that makes sense because clearly that’s not naive because she senses danger. What she said after that caused me to pause. Present danger or not, you’re still going to be friendly because you’ve been conditioned to be that way? So woman are conditioned to be friendly with men even if there’s no perceived danger? That makes no sense.[/quote]

Google Gavin deBecker and the "gift of fear." Yes, women are conditioned to be nice and polite, even in situations that make them uncomfortable and fearful. It absolutely makes sense, and when she puts you in the friend zone you should understand that her "interest" in you was likely to avoid hurting your feelings.[/quote]

I agree and believe that women are nice in situations they’re uncomfortable with. But what I’m having a hard time believing is that being friendly is a woman’s natural default? 
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