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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m all for respecting our elders but I was abused and ignored by my parents. And now that they’re both gone, I’m at peace.

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You mother could have aborted you but. Instead, chose to go through 9 months of all that pregnancy involves and gave you life, didn't she?  Ingrate.[/quote]

Not the person you are responding too, but this is so concerning. We should able grateful we weren't aborted? There were times in my life I wish my mother had an abortion because she really could not manage her rage and she seemed so exasperated with minor things. It took time and therapy to accept she is a limited person and to find ways to be a loving daughter without allowing her to abusive. I am the poster who cares from a distance and outsources.

I think as abusive people age and adults who were never abusive become abusive with cognitive deterioration, we need to all find solutions that allow us to be emotionally and physically safe, while also ensuring they get proper care/the best care that they can afford.

My heart goes out to the person who posted saying she/he was "abused and ignored by" her parents. There is no need to be grateful they chose not to abort you. I am glad that you have found peace.[/quote]

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