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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Please don't say anything. I was a skinny twig of a girl and my mom still made me feel very self-conscious about what would or wouldn't look good on me. Is that why I have struggled a lot with low self-esteem? Who knows, but sure did not help. [/quote] What is wrong with discussing what looks good on you and what doesn’t? That’s why people try on clothes, to see if they fit and look good on them. You’d rather your mother lie and tell you that mumu you chose looks great on you when it doesn’t? Your self esteem is on you, don’t look for something silly to blame. [/quote] You make it sound like there’s an objective standard of what “looks good on you.” Also the opinions of moms and mothers in law can have an outsized unintended effect (for many reasons) such that one has to be very careful and often better off saying nothing. [/quote]
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