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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]50lbs overweight is a deal breaker for me too. That's either a health or mental wellness issue going on that I want no part. I'm into fitness and health and expect my partner to be into those things as well. We are talking spending 2-3 hours at the gym daily, active lifestyle, growing my own foods, etc.[/quote] Agree with an earlier PP, you need to put these exact details in your profile. I'm not kidding. If you value 2-3 hours the gym daily for yourself, you might claim you dont' expect dates to do the same thing, but this information does tell dates a lot about you. Be sure to list that you are only interested in thin people, too. Don't just say "fit" because people can be fit at many different sizes, but you want thin. Say so. Save women the time of going out with you if they're not actually thin. And don't leap back in here to say curvy is fine, because to be blunt, what women think of as normally curvy or busty, most men today will run from as "fat." [/quote] I saw a profile of a man who was okay looking and normal by weight. I quickly calculated his BMI at 24. He said in the profile he only would date women who are “thin” eg 20 and under BMI. Im 20 BMI and my son is a college swimmer with Olympic god body, so I know how 20 BMI and real athletic men look like. The guy who wanted 20 BMI from women was okay but nowhere near the level of athleticism he claimed to be with 24 normal BMI. So I joked and asked him if he would consider dropping some weight for me as I also liked thin men. He never responded. These are usually people who are full of themselves [/quote]
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