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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would give her a detailed explanation about how appearances matter both professionally, romantically and even for friendships; I would point out all her lovely features that deserve to be brought out, hairstyles that might flatter her head shape, and cuts and style of clothes that go best with her figure; and I would also discuss colors and patterns that suit her coloring and size. Essentially I would act as her fashion assistant. Only once, if she shuts me down and says she's not interested, of course. I wouldn't want to be a nag and make her uncomfortable. But it's a service one woman can do for another. [/quote] This post is almost making me physically squirm. I do not want this service from my mom or any other woman, unless I specifically seek it out. [/quote] I'm sure you've forgotten how many times a trusted adult in your life made remarks that you found cringe at the time, but that you benefited from later. Knowledge that you are persuaded you found out all by yourself, because the squirming made you forget that originally it came from someone who cared about you. [/quote] Youre the family member that pinches someones stomach and tut tuts while shaking your head, arent you? None of that is helpful boomer! Leave the girls alone. [/quote]
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