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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Depends. What kind of evidence do you have?[/quote]

She smokes cannabis (it's legal here). Personally I think it's trashy and shows poor judgment (but I'm the one who was with her and had a kid with her knowing this after all so I'm guessing the court won't care), but my main concern is that she doesn't keep her products and paraphernalia out of reach of the child. Because of the way the court proceedings went she had a three month heads up before she had to take the hair follicle test, so she passed, but I have a photo of our child at her home with a lit joint in the background within the child's reach. That's about the only "smoking gun" I have, if you could call it that.

Other stuff I've sent to my lawyer is just evidence of her general hostility and manipulation. Calling me names, insulting me, talking about me and my fiancee on social media . There is one screenshot where she posted something recently like "I'd rather kill my baby daddy than ever be with him again" which was kind of alarming since she's posted memes about hitting me with her car etc in the past.

I have screenshots where she straight up admits if I'm not going to coparent how she wants she's going to limit my time with our child.

Hoping to see how this housing situation unfolds to try to make a case that she's not able to provide a stable environment for our child. 
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You gave this all to your lawyer right?

You’re going to have to use the legal system. I’m sorry. [/quote]

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