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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why did you have kids with this man? He sounds incompetent.[/quote]

NP with a DH who sounds exactly like OP's.  You do realize people can change, right??  I had no warning ahead of time.  My DH was involved around the house, attentive, and desperately wanted kids (we went through several years of infertility and IVF, and he was all in).  Once the reality of parenthood set in, he turned into his old-school Midwestern dad, who never lifted a single finger to help his wife while she worked and raised their 3 kids essentially on her own.  
I guess I should have paid more attention to the dynamic between my MIL/FIL and completely ignored the fact that my DH said he didn't want to be anything like his dad.  DH does the bathroom disappearing act like clockwork, daily.  And he is full-time WFH!  He spends hours playing video games in his office.  Any time I speak up, I'm accused of being a nag.  The only reason I stay is that I don't want him having partial custody of the kids, and I know he would pursue that due to pressure from his family.[/quote]

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