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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't think you are being unreasonable to not allow a man that neither you nor your children have ever met to stay in your home for an extended period. I wouldn't allow that either. And I say this as someone who loved her grandmother's boyfriend as a grandfather but I knew him for a decade.

You may find yourself without childcare or with a pissed off MIL but I would rather cancel my trip than have her come with the boyfriend. Just be prepared for that scenario. [/quote]

I told Dh I would rather not go on the trip than have this man stay at our house. I originally was thinking of safety for my children.

Now that I think deeper, I don’t think this man is in a good financial situation. He hangs out at my MIL’s paid off house, eats her food and they drive their car around. I don’t think his car is functioning. We have many valuables in our house. I just don’t want to worry about this when we are away.[/quote]

Could you be any more judgmental and snobby?  Ugh![/quote]

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