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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My sister who lives 2 hours away. We're her back-up too. We have provisions in our will for paying for our kids' care and housing. 10 years ago our best couple friends asked us to be the back-up guardians for their four kids. [b]We said yes, what else can you do? [/b]Her sibling lives on another continent and her husband's family is local but not ideal. But honestly, I would have a much harder time raising a friend's kids than a sibling's. I just don't love anyone as deeply as my FOO. And yes, sometimes I lie awake at night imagining that BOTH of these couples die and I wind up with seven extra kids. :shock: Though to be honest we haven't seen our couple friends as much recently, and I wouldn't be surprised if they've made other plans.[/quote] My mom's cousin, to whom she was not particularly close and who lived in MN (we lived in CA) asked my parents when she was going through chemo if my parents would be the guardians for their two sons if something happened to her and her husband (they were flying a lot for her treatments). My brother and I barely knew the two kids and one of them was special needs. My parents ended up saying no. [/quote]
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