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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op, another married woman here and I just wanted to say I feel for you. I love the whole “just get a divorce crowd” because they are always people happily married that 1. Have never had to even contemplate something like this. 2. Have no idea how expensive and complicated divorce is with kids.

The internet is amazing. That’s all I’m saying. The internet is your friend and even if you don’t want to actually take action-there are anonymous forums simply to be able to talk about what this is like with people going through the same thing.

Also-the whole “STDs here we come” and “you will get beat up by the other spouse” crowd seems to think that these aren’t concerns that people actually consider when doing something like this.

Full panel std tests can be done anonymously and any responsible person is going to get one done as well as ask the other person to get one done as well. Also, there seems to be this belief that people doing this are banging multiple people all the time. This is simply not the case. The vast majority of people doing this are married with children and looking for one person to do this with long term.

As far as the “getting beat up”. There is a whole community and there are safeguards. Nobody uses real phone numbers, nobody knows anybody’s real name or address. Basically if you wanted to end something it can basically be done with one click and no paper trail.

Yes it’s “gross”. Be happy you are not in a position to ever have to do it. [/quote]

Nope. The “just get a divorce crowd” are often us betrayed spouses that had their lives blown up, and many of us getting exposed to potential STIs while we were still having sex with our spouses.

We have lived through the trauma of two families imploding. Kids/teens being traumatized having resultant mental/school issues due to the betrayal. Childhood homes being sold.

It’s not sexy.  And when this comes to light both cheaters are reviled by family and friends and had zero intention of ever spending a life together.

Sounds like it’s worth it, doesn’t it  :roll: ?[/quote]

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