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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Women should just let their man go get release through a prostitute. It's not that big of a deal.[/quote]

Men don’t want prostitutes or “release.” They want connection and desire.

This post sounds like it was written by a woman in any case. [/quote]

Most of the ones around here complaining about sexless marriages seem completely fine with the concept of having sex with their wives, whether or not their wives are turned on or into it. The decent ones say they want consent, but none seem interested in whether their wives enjoy it.

The tip is when they start talking about their wives making "unilateral" decisions to not have sex wiht their husbands as if the husband has any say in whether his wife will have sex with him.[/quote]

You sound like a complete nut case. Marriage is a partnership, off course husband will have a say when THEY will have sex. Same goes for wife. Now if the husband or wife are a-hole or if they have gotten too fat, then it is understandable for their spouse not to have any desire. [/quote]

Husbands don't get to decide whether their wife will have sex. They need to get consent.[/quote]
Marriage is a partnership which means both partners have a say when they have sex. Asking for permission makes it a master/slave relationship not a partnership [/quote]

Having sex with someone without their permission makes it rape.[/quote]

This seems like a completely irrelevant point.  How exactly is rape connected to this discussion?[/quote]

read the thread back—the angry guy said the both partners should get decide if the wife wants to have sex and that by doing it any other way creates a master/slave relationship. consent is key to any sexual encounter. not a debatable thing.[/quote]

I think you are totally misreading these posts.  No one is talking about forcing someone reluctant to have sex or engage in sexual activity.  We are talking about the root issues, which are why doesn’t this person want to have sex with their spouse to begin with?[/quote]

And at the crux of that question is the spouse feigning ignorance about why someone doesn’t want to sleep with them, yet they continue to whine, ask, guilt trip, bully and worse about wanting sex asap.

So cart before the horse.

But. If and when the ignorant demanding spouse demands sex, as their duty,  as they’re married, as their right, you open the consent and rape door quite quickly. Married or not.

So all very relevant.

Again, fix your relationship issues first. Sex is an output of that.

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