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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I tried discussing it with him once in the past. [b]He said that he is sensitive and when I need to vent or get other ways of support it wears him down.[/b] it was kind of disappointing because he always happily accepts my support. Sometimes I feel used, like I’m only good for a good time.[/quote] This is a problem, OP, and not the foundation that you'd want to try to build a long term relationship/marriage on. He's telling you flat out he's a taker and once you start layering years, kids, and just general life sh*t on top of that you likely be very lonely. Counseling might help, but he doesn't seem to realize there is anything wrong with taking and not giving emotionally in a relationship. [/quote] +1 It is fine to acknowledge your own needs but this is over the top. He sounds very unappealing. I would move on. [/quote]
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