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[quote=Anonymous]I have two adult children and a minor child. One adult has moved out. I do not finance his lifestyle. He needs to be able to pay his bills. I do pay when we go out together and for most of the cost of vacations when he comes along. Second adult child is mentally ill and not yet (and maybe never will be) able to live on his own. He has a room in my house and is free to eat meals with us. I also pay when we go out together and when we vacation together. But he works and must pay for his food outside of what we make for meals, his transportation, his clothes, his social life, etc. He must also take care of the dogs in exchange for living with us. So, no, I don’t finance my kids’ lives though could easily afford to. They need to adult and that means living within their means. Both of my boys have borrowed money from me once - around $3-$5k - and we did a payment plan where they paid it back within a few months. [/quote]
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