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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’ve never met a single hetero male who has in interest in being a single dad. [/quote]

This. And this includes the guys I know who are great dads within the context of their marriages or even who became single dads later due to death or divorce. They don't want the burden or labor of being the primary parent and they will not sign up for it willingly. Some men will rise to the occasion if it presents itself but even they wouldn't choose it if the alternative (marrying a woman who will be the primary parent) is available which it almost always is.

And for every guy who rises to the challenge of being a good dad there are 10 who promise they'll be a present and committed father and then are not. If it ever does become trendy for men to hire surrogates to have kids on their own we will need to have a way to deal with all the abandoned and orphaned children when those guys discover actually they don't want to be dads. In fact if I was a surrogate I would never agree to have a baby for a single dad in part because I would worry he would either abandon the child or try to force me to take the child.

I guess it would be a way to get some guy to pay for your pregnancy and donate sperm if you secretly wanted to keep the kid. But there are other better ways.[/quote]

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