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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would allow it but make a plan. For example, have him identify whose car it will be once he cannot drive. Make sure he’s understanding he may only drive the car a short time. Then let him. As you say, it’s his money[/quote] “Allow” it?[/quote] +100. The hubris. [/quote] Once parents are in their 80s, their kids should take an active role in evaluating whether they are still fit to drive - this is not hubris, it is compassionate and responsible. In this case, “allow” means, don’t interfere at this time, since OP did not mention issues with his overall fitness for driving. If that word is triggering in this context it is probably reflecting a fear of being in a situation where your adult kids can take away your independence, and that’s a natural thing to fear![/quote]
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