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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]PP and I totally disagree with the others that this isn’t fulfilling. It’s maybe  not fulfilling to sleep with people you don’t like and it’s certainly going to feel bad to be deceptive, but a casual fling where everyone is getting what they want can be so delightful!

Think of it this way, you’re having a full relationship with the person. It’s just not the same kind as a committed dating relationship in pursuit of marriage. You’re enjoying each other on different terms. [b]What will hurt your soul is if it’s not actually what you or they want or have agreed to.[/b] [/quote]

New poster with a note of caution re: the bold. Two people can agree to a relationship which is clearly, explicitly and intentionally just for sex, and then the sex can lead to development of emotions--if not romantic love, at least an attachment which goes beyond exchanging sexual pleasure. That can end up complicating the just-for-sex understanding between them. Especially if the attachment is only on one side.[/quote]

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