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Your brother is being unnecessarily CRUEL.

There could be plenty of legitimate reasons why they'd wish to cut off the family, but it's very cruel to not explain their decision to someone who sincerely doesn't know what went wrong. It's not something a rational, decent, humane person would do.

I hope you can heal and live a happy life without them, OP. I'm sorry.
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People like this always say they aren't told the reason.  But really, they don't think any reason they are told can justify what's happening.

https://www.issendai.com/psychology/estrangement/missing-missing-reasons.html[/quote]

+10000 The people being cut off have spent years not listening, pushing past boundaries, being manipulative and being told no yet pretend they have no idea why the family member cut them off. Their lack of understanding is that they don’t think the other person’s reasons are valid and they feel entitled to behave as they wish. [/quote]

+2 It's this, along with OP's refusal to use paragraphs. Seriously OP, you gave enough details for us to figure it out. There's much more that you and your parents are aware of despite you pretending that you don't know. [/quote]

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