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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You have to stagger the night. You go to bed early, like 9pm, he does the 11pm/midnight feeding while you’re asleep. Then he goes to bed and you do the rest of the feedings.

It sucks but it won’t last forever. [/quote]

OP here. This is what I was hoping would happen but nope. He said he does enough, and he actually does. I just wish I had help during the night. I still get very little sleep. [/quote]

You keep saying he does a lot or enough.  What does he do?[/quote]

OP here. He takes the baby from 6ish - 9pm nightly. This helps me do whatever I want to do. He will clean up the kitchen and living room while I’m nursing. He then will put the baby to bed before he goes to bed. He does mornings on the weekends and will get up if I ask him. He lets me sleep in and he largely does most of the childcare on the weekends so I can rest. This is why I’m asking if I’m being unreasonable. [/quote]

Yes. He's doing enough if you are a SAHM. If you will be going back to work, he will need to step up, but the baby's schedule will be different then so you'll have to work that out once you get there.  [/quote]

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